Are all good men taken?

We bumped into a couple, both we know well. What was weird about this couple is who they are maritally - the man is a married man and the lady is a single woman. But they are couple, as in they are in love with each other. I can see that and others too.

As it was none of our business except for feeling pityful to both of them (as the man will not leave his beautiful, rich wife and gorgeous baby and so they will remain in an extramarital affairs), I wondered why some women fall for married men? Are all good men taken and we, the single women flock for them, no matter what?

My friend agreed to that but i beg to differ. Married men have mastered the art of picking up women and that is why some women will fall for them, if they allowed themselves to. In a way, yes, they are good at pick-up lines...hehhehehhe... They know how to make these women feel wanted... hey, remember... they have wives, of course they know...

Some married men forget to close their singlehood chapter (Always on standby-mode). Some claim their wives do not understand them (how on earth they got married in the first place bewildered me). Some desire some reactivation in their love zone with a stranger so that they can feel that they are desirable (so that is what their wives should feel towards them). Some needs someone to talk to (they thought appearing deep in thoughts and in silent reflects their machoism)...

Needless to say, these women will be left alone in the end. Married men, at last, feel the sense of belonging with their offsprings and they will never leave them behind. So, wake up sista! Married men are taken. Open up your senses to single, available men out there but never ever settle for someone less for the sake of getting hitched as your biological clock is catching up with your body. Not all good men are taken.

For all married men, who have not closed their singlehood, preying chapter, please make this world a better place for everyone especially your family.

Still, I know it is difficult. While some affairs are purely hormonal, some are star-crossed love, that are not meant to realise into a matrimony. How could you extinguish true love? How could you mend the broken heart? How could you stop crying yourself to sleep? How could you face a day with your true love? How I wish I could get that guy from "Heroes" to black out my past memory on that special someone. Life would be so much easier...

Say NO to married men. So No to unnecessary misery. No...in the name of love...